Nova Identity — Your relationships aren't failing. Your identity is running an old program.

You're struggling with your chid's behavior.

You've done everything right. And it's still not working.

You're interatctions with others leaves you feeling guilty, frustrated, exhausted.

On the outside, you have it all...on the inside you feel empty and alone.

Identity-level change follows a sequence. Skip the early layers and the later ones collapse under pressure.

My approach shifts your perspective from one of trying to "fix" you or your child to understanding what their behavior is awakening in your inner world. I work at the identity level, revealing the deeper patterns that dictate your experience of connection and meaning. We'll identify the unconscious blueprints currently driving your interactions and proactively build a new internal framework so that you can parent from a place of authentic connection.

For years, I pushed my limits as a professional mountain bike racer, always chasing that final 1%. When physical training took me as far as it could, I turned inward — to visualization, meditation, and the quiet work of the mind. What I found there was a fundamentally different way of seeing myself and the world. That inner work didn't just make me a better racer — it made me honest. And that honesty surfaced something I couldn't ignore: beneath it all, I was stuck — yearning for peace when, on the outside, it seemed I had it all. That not-so-quiet ache led me to my first spiritual teacher, a pivot toward Eastern wisdom, and a lifelong promise to stop fixing the surface and start working at the root — where identity, connection, and lasting change actually live.

You'll move from reacting to consciously creating your relational life. You will experience relationships that truly reflect your values and desires. What becomes possible is a profound sense of meaning, both within yourself and with others.